cat’s out of the bag, pandoras box is open

OKAY gals it is time to face the taboo of sex. I have done the run to the sexologist. and the first question she asked is can you ” come” . With a flushed face I said yes, and that was the end of the session,. Is that it? Because I can get pleasure her work is done? No discussion of the excruciating pains? or feeling like I am being sawed by a sharp knife? I give up on some of these so called specialist. I have personally decided to give the whole matter a rest. But What am I doing to my partner? I am not asking you to reveal you bed room secrets or alternative methods. But let me use a metafoor…

When you have chocolate icecream for daily/weekly or monthly dessert and then you find out that the chocolate icecream is giving you lactose problems, do you stop eating your favorite icecream? meeooowww!ballet1-090


3 Responses to cat’s out of the bag, pandoras box is open

  1. imstell says:

    Dearest Visa – Never, ever, ever give up ice cream. But you should only eat it if YOU want to not just because your husband gives you those sad puppy-dog eyes. 😉

    Oh yeah, and you are most certainly not alone. I thought I was having troubles with all that dryness stuff during chemotherapy. Good grief! It was nothing compared to the desert that seemingly sprang up overnigt in my girl parts after my ooferectomy! There was pain – lots and lots of pain. And definite knife sawing action. I have felt your pain!

    Luckily, I found a solution that is nothing short of miraculous. There is a lubricant out there (I get mine at Rite Aid) called Replens. Ours is a very slickery baby oilish solution (but it also comes in a mousse and suppository) that not only works when you apply it… it also continues to work its magic for days on end. With regular usage you can even fool around without it. Blessed days! And it lasts FOREVER. Our first bottle lasted about 1.5 years.

    Thou shalt not give up ice cream… just take lactaid. 😉

  2. I am so grateful that you brought up the subject.

    I am interested in discussing this issue privately.

    Feel free to write me at:

  3. LOVE imstell’s line Thou shalt not give up ice cream… just take lactaid.


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